My girl and I had sex with another girl a couple days ago – our 4th girl in the last 3 weeks. We used the same template on her Tinder profile we’ve been using for ages now:

My girl: “Hey, you’re sexy. I’m Imogen. I’m looking for something very specific on here.”
Other girl: [Usually says: “Thanks! What are you looking for?”]
My girl: “A guy I’m seeing has been teaching me BDSM lately. Every experienced a 3some/BDSM dynamic before, or is it something you’d like to explore?”
Other girl: [Usually says: “I’d like to explore it”]
My girl: “Cool. What part of [our city] are you from? We both live in [area of our city]. His name is Andy.”
Other girl: [Usually says: “I’m from [her area]”]
My girl: “We should all grab a drink and make sure we click. What’s your number? I’ll send you some BDSM examples from photoshoots we’ve both done together too, if you like.”

We grabbed this girl’s number, met for a drink, took her back to ours and had a tonne of fun with her. She was an absolute cutie – very sexy, super shy and inexperienced, and just starting to come into her own (she’s only 19 and just discovering her sexuality).

Here’s a few pics she sent us both before we met:

Podcast episode talking about it with my girlfriend:


Here’s the previous 3 threesomes we’ve had in the last couple of weeks:

Wanna have a 3some yourself? It’s infinitely easier than you think it is – if I can do it, you sure as hell can too. Here’s some guides I’ve written to get you started:

If you’re still stuck, contact me for coaching and I’ll kick your ass into gear. Let’s fucking go.


Subscribe to hear the latest episodes from The Inner Winner Show:

Cover image by: Roman Khripkov


Yo, Andy here. I’m an Aussie guy who went from a depressed, suicidal loser to a guy who gets laid regularly, has 3somes & BDSM sex, crushes weights at the gym & loves his life. I killed my inner loser. It's my mission to get you to kill your inner loser too.