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When a lot of you first go out there to start approaching women, a million fears will pop into your brain – a million reasons why you “can’t” approach her. Read through this list and see how many of these apply to you:
- “Actually, she’s not that cute”
- “she’s not my type”
- “She’s too old for me”
- “She’s too young for me”
- “She looks busy, she probably doesn’t want me to bother her right now”
- “I’ll approach the next person instead”
- “I can do it another day”
- “It’s cold out, I can’t approach”
- “It’s too late in the evening, I might scare her”
- “I’m probably not her type”
- “She’s with her friends, I can’t approach a group.”
- “She’s alone, that would be weird.”
- “She has headphones in.”
- “She’s walking too fast.”
- “She’s walking too slow, that’s somehow also suspicious.”
- “She looks like she has a boyfriend.”
- “She’s probably waiting for her boyfriend.”
- “She’s probably on her way to something important.”
- “This location isn’t good.”
- “There are too many people around.”
- “There aren’t enough people around.”
- “Someone might see me.”
- “What if someone records me?”
- “I’m not dressed well enough today.”
- “My hair/beard/skin/outfit isn’t good enough.”
- “I’m too tired.”
- “I’m not in the right state.”
- “I need to warm up first.”
- “I’ll do it after I get food/coffee/water.”
- “I’ll do it on the way back.”
- “I missed the perfect moment.”
- “It would be awkward now.”
- “She already saw me look at her, so now it’s weird.”
- “She didn’t look at me, so she’s not interested.”
- “She looked at me, but probably by accident.”
- “She smiled, but she’s probably just polite.”
- “She seems too confident for me.”
- “She seems shy, I don’t want to overwhelm her.”
- “She’s too attractive; she definitely gets approached all the time.”
- “She’s not attractive enough for me to risk rejection.”
- “I don’t have anything clever to say.”
- “I need a better opener.”
- “I’ll just make it weird.”
- “I’ll ruin her day.”
- “I’ll come across as creepy.”
- “I’m not ready yet.”
- “I need to work on myself more first.”
- “I’ll start approaching properly next week.”
- “Today doesn’t count because I didn’t plan to approach.”
- “I’ve already done enough today.”
- “I haven’t done enough today, so I’m already failing anyway.”
- “I’ll wait for a stronger sign.”
- “The universe will send me a clearer opportunity.”
- “I don’t want to force it.”
- “I’m being respectful by doing absolutely nothing forever.”
The good news is you don’t have to listen to those excuses – you can use some of the solutions I talk about here and just go approach her anyway.
You got this.
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