I want to be really honest with you today — you guys know I love honesty.
For most of my life, I’ve had a lot of guilt around money.
I used to tell myself things like, “I don’t care about money,” or “I’m too humble to worry about that.” But if I’m being real… that was just fear and false humility talking. Deep down, I did care — I was just ashamed to admit it.
I’ve felt guilty about having money.
I’ve felt guilty about asking for money.
I’ve even felt guilty about offering my coaching to people — like I was doing something “wrong” by charging for my time.
And of course, that guilt led to all sorts of self-sabotage:
- Buying stuff I didn’t need.
- Giving away money to random people ($400 to a homeless guy once!)
- Downplaying my coaching whenever I did talk about it.
- Not recording content because I didn’t feel “worthy.”
- Saying “no” when people offered to donate money to me.
It’s taken me a long time to untangle that guilt. And I’m still working on it.
Here’s what’s helped me (and what can help you if you have guilt around making more money, or having more sex, or anything else) –
✅ Simply noticing when I’m sabotaging myself. Awareness is huge.
✅ Asking for help — from my coach, my friends, my support network.
✅ Writing out 50 reasons why I am worthy of earning more.
✅ Meditation, letting go, and slowly rewriting the stories I tell myself.
✅ And most importantly… continuing to take action anyway, even when I feel unworthy.
I talked even more about it in this vid:
If you’ve ever felt guilty for wanting more — more money, more success, more sex, more love — I get it. You’re not alone.
And if you’d like to help me reach my money goals (while smashing your goals in the process!), I’d love to invite you into The Abundance Collective — our supportive coaching community where we’re all learning to grow together.
Right now you can join for 75% off your first month if you use this link:
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Let’s stop sabotaging ourselves and actually build the life we want.
We got this.
