My girl Imogen and I cover the basics of BDSM for the absolute newbie, including how to get started from scratch.

Part 1

Part 1 covers toys, techniques and household items you can use to blow her mind:

Part 2

Part 2 covers power dynamics, roleplaying and different names to call each other (Sir, Master, Mistress, Daddy, etc):

Sex Toys Mentioned:

BDSM Starter kit we recommend:
Buy on Adam and Eve (affiliate link)

Magic Wand we mentioned:
Buy the Doxy Magic Wand (affiliate link)

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Yo, Andy here. I’m an Aussie guy who went from a depressed, suicidal loser to a guy who gets laid regularly, has 3somes & BDSM sex, crushes weights at the gym & loves his life. I killed my inner loser. It's my mission to get you to kill your inner loser too.