Anytime you guys feel intimidated by a girl’s dating profile or Instagram, remember that it’s not really the “real her” – it’s a perfectly-curated, heavily edited version of her – the highlight reels.
Want some proof? Here’s a convo with a hot girl I’m seeing right now (pics/vids of her here, and also here) – this is posted with her permission:
If you feel a woman is “better” than you, just because she seems hotter than you – she’s likely just put more effort into her pictures and profile. It doesn’t mean she’s “better”, it doesn’t mean you’re “worse”; it’s not a hierarchy thing.
Besides, you have so much more to offer a woman than just your physical appearance – go through this list and work on adding as many of those traits and improving yourself, so you’re not relying on attractiveness alone. And while you’re at it, build a winner’s mindset too – it’ll help a ton, I promise.
All of this applies to other guys too – if you find yourself comparing yourself to attractive or rich guys on Insta, just know it’s not the real them. You’re looking at a carefully-curated version of them – what they want you to see.
And the same applies to my YouTube channel – I try and be as real and vulnerable and authentic as I can, but you’re still only seeing a tiny tiny tiny TINY snapshot of my life. Who you think I am based on my YouTube channel & this blog, is not the full Andy; not even close.
So don’t get so caught up in the “she’s out of my league” bullshit or the “she’s too hot for me” insecurities.
Shoot your shot with the hot girls on dating apps, Instagram, etc.
If you see some super hot girl on the street, go up and talk to her – you might be surprised that she gives you more of a chance than you’ve been giving yourself.
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