Hello friends, let me regale you with a tale of a pretty wild (and unexpected!) night of debauchery, cuddles, conversations, and connection – all on a night when I was feeling pretty anti-social and in a low mood.
So our tale begins a couple of nights ago; it was a Sunday night, and I was feeling a bit lonely, very bored, and had spent most of the day completely alone. Frustrated and feeling a little down, I said to myself “Fuck this” and decided to just go for a walk, so I could at least be around people, rather than sitting at home all alone.
I walk alongside the beach near my house, underneath the starry sky, recording a voice message for one of my coaching clients. I interrupted what I was saying to him to say, “Hey hangon a sec mate… I just walked past this incredibly sexy woman, and I kinda wanna go say hi to her… Wait one second.”
Cutting the voice message short, I jogged after this absolutely stunning girl in a sexy black top showing off her ample cleavage. As she was strutting her stuff, she had this “bad bitch” energy where she knew she was sexy – her confidence was incredible.
I jogged after her, waved to get her attention, and she took off her earphones, saying “Hey” with a sexy smile. I smiled and said “Hey I know this is random, but my god, you are incredibly pretty & really really sexy.” She smiled and said “Thankyou” in an incredibly confident way that just had me soooo into her – god I love women who know they’re hot shit. (To be fair, I like shy girls too!)
“Are you single?” I asked, and she smiled again, saying “Yes I am.” I shook her hand, introducing myself, and asked her what she was up to.
“Well, I was bored at home, so I left to go for a walk. I’m just walking around with no plan right now.”
“No shit?” I replied, “Me too. I was literally lonely at home so I went out for a random walk just to be around people.”
She laughed, and I asked her if she wanted to hangout with me – she said yes. We went and sat on a bench and talked for hours, about life, the universe and everything. She was soooo good at opening up, being vulnerable, sharing herself – and the more she opened up, the more and more into her I became. I told her several times “You are so sexy” which she absolutely loved, and she told me a few times “You’re really handsome” which drove me mad.
I asked her if she knew she was sexy, or if she was kind of just “putting on a bit of an act” with her confidence. She softened a bit and was real with me: “No, I’m genuinely confident. I’ve been through a lot, and I’ve done a lot of work on myself to become more confident.”
I smiled, replying “I really respect that. I used to be super depressed and suicidal, and I’ve done a lot to work on my confidence too. That’s dope.”
At one point she asked me how old I am – “38” I replied. “Well I’m 20” she said, with a bit of a smile on her face. I complimented her – “You seem soooo much more mature than 20. [And she was – insanely confident and mature]. Where on earth do you get your confidence from?” She really liked that.
I told her I was a life coach and she loved that, asking me a million questions about it, and telling me about her own self-improvement journey. She said “A lot of people in life have a fixed mindset, but I try to have a growth mindset” – she was literally saying the exact things I have in my Play to Win Mindset course.
We ended up moving to a really nice, semi-secluded spot near the water and kept chatting some more, and at one point I couldn’t help myself – I was honest and said “Holy fuck I want to kiss you”. She leaned in and we made out – passionate, my hand on her throat, (gently) choking her a little. She pulled back, looking into my eyes, and said to me “You are such a good kisser.”
“Hah, look who’s talking!” I replied, as we stared into each other’s eyes. “You are so passionate and feisty.”
And then for the first time that night, she showed a little nervousness, subtly (not so subtly) saying “So… I live about 15 minutes walk from here…. Um…”
I smiled and said “Oh, do you now?” A giant cheeky grin on my face.
“Yeah” she said, “So… Maybe this is creepy or weird, but do you want to come back to my house with me?”
I smiled even bigger, blown away by her confidence, and absolutely loving it. (The vast majority of women are NEVER this forward). “And what would we do at your apartment?” I asked, my grin widening.
“Well, I need to clean my room, so we could do that? I’d also like to eat something.”
I point blank said to her: “If we go to your apartment, I’m absolutely going to want to have sex with you.”
She kinda blushed and nodded, and then we started walking back to hers.
We stopped to grab some food for dinner and back at her place, we played Super Mario for a bit. I played with her cat (I love cats! In another life I would have been a cat lady), and we hungout and talked. Again she opened up about her life, some stuff she’d been through, and I was so impressed by how willing to open up she was. Vulnerability and honesty are huge turnons to me, incase you couldn’t tell.
We made out a bunch, at some point she turned the lights off and I went down on her (my god she tasted good), and I fingered her so hard she squirted a bit. As soon as I got a little more passionate with her, she absolutely melted, going from this really confident, badass girl, to a total cute little kitten. At one point she was softly calling me “Daddy”, which is like my kryptonite.
We fooled around more, made out, the whole time us saying to each other “This is so crazy, we literally only met a few hours ago.” She begged me to fuck her (but I prefer to wait until the 2nd time I meet someone before I have sex), and I was honest and told her this – which only made her more horny.
We teased more, I fingered her more, she moaned more – my god she was sexy. We eventually took a break and she snuggled up to me while I gently caressed her face, playing with her hair and telling her what a good girl she was (which only made her smile so wide).
I told her how grateful I was for all of this, and she asked me, “Why?”
“Are you kidding me? I was in a low mood, feeling lonely, and then I met you. You were so nice to me from the moment I met you. So sexy, so confident. You opened up to me about so much of your childhood, your hopes and dreams, what you’ve been through, who you want to be in life. I’m so grateful for all of that. You invited me back to yours – god you’re brave! We hungout together, you gave me the most amazing night, you’ve opened up and shared your body with me sexually and intimately, and now you’re giving me the nicest cuddles ever. Of course I’m grateful to you!”
She told me she was grateful for me too, complimenting me a bunch and telling me again how handsome I am. What a total sweetheart.
I said my goodbyes, started walking home, and pulled out my phone to continue the voice message to my client that had been interrupted by this amazing woman. “So… uh… it’s 5 hours later since I sent you that first voice message. You’ll never believe what I just got up to…”
I sent her a gratitude message the next morning, and look how sweet she is:
And all of this on a night when I was feeling a bit lonely, and just decided to go outside and be around people, and then take a chance to talk to a girl I thought was pretty.
Beautiful experiences are allowed to happen to you – if you’ll just give yourself permission to try talking with people. And that’s all this is – we’re just talking to people.
People are nice. Women are nice. I promise you’re allowed to just say hi to them.
Something magical might happen if you do.
