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Maybe you’ve spent your life putting everyone else first, quietly waiting for your turn to experience that sexual abundance and genuine happiness, connection, and confidence you’ve always wanted. Maybe you’ve quietly wondered:
“How come other people get to be happy, but not me?”
“Why don’t I get to have the sex life I want?”
“Why is it so hard for me to do the basics? Why can I never seem to improve?”
For years, I found myself in the shadows, always prioritizing others’ needs above my own. I believed that by being selfless and accommodating, happiness would eventually find its way to me. But as time passed, I couldn’t shake the nagging questions:
- “When will it be my turn?”
- “When do I get to live the life I dream of?”
The realization hit me hard: waiting for the perfect moment or for someone to grant me permission to pursue my desires wasn’t gonna cut it. I just ended up depressed, bitter, angry at the world, depressed and suicidal.
Take ownership of your happiness.
Reflecting on my journey, I remember the days when I felt trapped in a cycle of depression and self-doubt. It wasn’t until I decided to take control that things began to change. I lost 77lbs, learned to approach women, and eventually built a life filled with experiences I once only dreamed of. I’m not special – I didn’t do anything crazy. I just improved myself a bit at a time, left the house and went outside, talked to a few girls, and slowly improved my online dating profiles over time.
Nothing crazy, just consistent, daily action (baby steps).
Break free from the waiting game.
It’s easy to fall into the trap of waiting—waiting for the “right time”, the right opportunity, waiting until [insert bullshit limiting belief here]. But this waiting game only leads to missed opportunities and regret. Instead of waiting for your turn, declare that your time is now. Start by setting small, achievable goals, and then get started working on them. Each step forward builds momentum, propelling you closer to the life you envision.
Start right now.
So, to those who have been quietly waiting for their turn: stop waiting. The life you dream of isn’t just going to magically fucking happen; you have to make it happen. Take that first step, no matter how daunting it may seem. Your time isn’t in some distant future—it’s now. Set a goal, break it down into smaller baby goals, and GET STARTED. Right now.
You deserve the success, happiness, sex, money, peace, and love you’ve been waiting for. Those aren’t things “other people” get to have; they’re things YOU are allowed to have. Give yourself that gift; future you will thank you for it.
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You’re allowed to have an awesome life.
You just have to take that leap of faith and get started, now.
