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Keen to get into rope bondage (Shibari) but have no fucking idea where to start? Welcome to the club – rope bondage is something I’ve been wanting to do for years, but just never got around to.

So let’s learn together – I’m going to be following a bunch of YouTube tutorials, and you can learn along with me. I’ll post my examples from each session as I go. This should be fun.

If you’ve never tried any BDSM or rope play before, don’t let that hold you back. You can do this even if you’ve literally NEVER done bdsm before. Just tell your girl you found this really cool thing you wanna try with her. Show her the pics I have below (showing what it looks like when it’s done). If she thinks it looks cool (99% of girls will), then try it with her. You don’t have to be perfect at it – you two can figure it out together, just like I’m doing with my girl right now.  

Before we start, you’ll need:

  • A long bondage rope (35ft/10m or longer). Buy this one – I own it, it’s nice and soft so it won’t hurt your girl’s skin. That rope also comes in purple and black.
  • A female human being (or you can do some shibari on your mates if buy ’em a beer or something).
  • Grab a cheap blindfold while you’re there too; I’ve talked about how to make the most out of blindfolds here.

1. Rope Dress

We’ll kick off with a super simple pattern called a “Rope Dress”. It looks complicated but it’s easy as fuck – we did ours in about 5 minutes. Follow this step-by-step tutorial:

We also added a couple of flowers to spice it up, and ended up with this:

Again, that’s easy as hell to do – this is literally the first time I’ve ever done any shibari, and it only took us about 5 minutes to do (plus another 5 minutes to add the flowers).

If you want to add some flowers like we did, just grab any cheap flower bouquet from a florist. Here’s what ours looked like:


2. Star Chest Harness

Next we had a crack at this one:

This one also only took about 5 minutes, and ended up looking pretty damn cool:

And of course, doing these got us both so horny we fucked each other’s brains out afterwards. Good times.

If you try these yourself, let us know how it goes – or even better, take a picture of it and show me. (Obviously make sure your girl is cool with having a photo taken, and don’t show her face).

If you have any questions, drop a comment below.


Yo, Andy here. I’m an Aussie guy who went from a depressed, suicidal loser to a guy who gets laid regularly, has 3somes & BDSM sex, crushes weights at the gym & loves his life. I killed my inner loser. It's my mission to get you to kill your inner loser too.