Now it’s your turn – I want YOU to go out there and make a 3some happen for yourself (even if you don’t feel ready – fuck “being ready”. Every guy can have a 3some, if he actually puts in the effort to try, no matter what experience level you’re at).

How? Grab my hardcore “How to Have a 3some (Even If You Don’t Feel Ready)” video course + 2 ebook bundle. It completely holds your hand, covering every single step of having a 3some:

  • Mindset (destroying the belief that you “aren’t ready” for a 3some yet)
  • How to find the girls who are up for 3somes
  • Setting up your Tinder/Hinge to maximise efficiency and cut down on time-wasting
  • What to do on dates, how to get the girls back to your place
  • How to initiate the 3some
  • Exactly what to do during the 3some itself (how to make it hot as hell)
  • How to make both girls orgasm; how to blow their minds so they’ll come back for more
  • How to make the girls desperate to have more 3somes with you (retention)
  • Eliminating jealousy between the girls, so everyone involved has a good time
  • How you can get girls to bring you more girls themselves, without any input from you!

The last half of the training is the best part: I go into detail about how you can get a girl to bring in more girls for 3somes (yep, free sex for you!) like I’ve done with my girlfriend Immy. She and I wrote that part of the training together (she contributed a tonne of content, so you can hear what a 3some is like from a woman’s point of view), and it’s aimed at WOMEN – as in, we talk directly to your girl, we literally tell her every single step she needs to take, so she can do it all herself, without you having to do a damn thing.

So all YOU need to do is hand her the guide and say “Go bring me free 3somes!”

Get serious about your sex life – grab your copy here (video course + 2 ebooks):

Grab it now!

Want a traditional relationship, or monogamy, or a girlfriend? This podcast is for you.

This is probably my most important podcast yet – I dive into why you shouldn’t compare yourself to me, and why you shouldn’t assume my life is “cool” or “glamourous” or “perfect”. You need to build your own life, chase your own goals, and not aim to just directly copy-paste what I’ve done.

If you want a traditional relationship, or marriage + kids, or a loyal girlfriend – this podcast is a must-listen.

In short, my only goal with my site/coaching/podcast is for you to achieve YOUR goals and for you to be HAPPY. My goal isn’t to make you a copy-paste clone of me.

On that note, I am very rare for wanting lots and lots of sex and non-monogamy. The vast majority of men want monogamy (eventually) and marriage/kids (eventually). If you want these things too, awesome! Embrace the fact you want them, and work really fucking hard to achieve them. Go all-in.

You may want to have a casual sex/open relationship phase for a while – awesome! Treat it like a chapter in your life and go 100% all-in, and make it the best phase of your life. (If you want open relationships forever, that’s very achievable too – I’m proof of that. Again, do whatever YOU want to do, not what you think you “should” do. Don’t compare yourself to others.)

On this site I show you mostly the “highlight reels” of my life. I’m not a cool, super-awesome guy; I’m just above-average. I don’t go to parties or clubs or raves, etc. Most of my weekends are boring. You don’t have to be a super cool dude in order to get laid a lot (though if you are, great!) 

If you get caught up in thinking girls are “sluts” for having a lot of sex, that’s something to work on. A girl who has a lot of sex isn’t a bad person. In the same way you wouldn’t go to Disneyland and say “Man, a lot of people have been on this ride, that’s disgusting, I’m not riding it” – don’t do the same thing with girls who’ve explored their sexuality. Just have a bit of fun with them, see them for as long as you’re both happy to see each other, and let go of your judgemental mindset/insecurity/jealousy.

Concepts like “All Women Are Like That” are incredibly myopic and downright wrong. You can’t judge people based on their POTENTIAL behaviour; nor can you judge the entire gender by their worst possible aspects. If we accept “all women will cheat on you and leave you”, then it’s just as valid to say “all men will rape you”. Poor attitudes like this only serve to make you bitter, angry, resentful and miserable. You’re setting yourself up for failure; if you believe women suck, it’ll become a self-fulfilling prophecy. I’ve talked about this before, here:

You don’t need “fuckboi” attributes in order to get laid a lot. Physical attractiveness is important, as is good style/fashion/dress-sense. Those things will help you in every aspect of your life.

You also don’t need to be a “BDSM god”. Just write a sexual bucketlist and get girls to write their own, and explore those things together.


Shownotes:

OBSESS about your goals:

https://kyil-extra.com/slight-edge/#25-1-or-2-main-goals-you-obsess-about

How to Write a Sexual Bucketlist:

Magic Wand Vibrator:

Andy’s counter-argument to “All Women Are Like That”:

Now it’s your turn – I want YOU to go out there and make a 3some happen for yourself (even if you don’t feel ready – fuck “being ready”. Every guy can have a 3some, if he actually puts in the effort to try, no matter what experience level you’re at).

How? Grab my hardcore “How to Have a 3some (Even If You Don’t Feel Ready)” video course + 2 ebook bundle. It completely holds your hand, covering every single step of having a 3some:

  • Mindset (destroying the belief that you “aren’t ready” for a 3some yet)
  • How to find the girls who are up for 3somes
  • Setting up your Tinder/Hinge to maximise efficiency and cut down on time-wasting
  • What to do on dates, how to get the girls back to your place
  • How to initiate the 3some
  • Exactly what to do during the 3some itself (how to make it hot as hell)
  • How to make both girls orgasm; how to blow their minds so they’ll come back for more
  • How to make the girls desperate to have more 3somes with you (retention)
  • Eliminating jealousy between the girls, so everyone involved has a good time
  • How you can get girls to bring you more girls themselves, without any input from you!

The last half of the training is the best part: I go into detail about how you can get a girl to bring in more girls for 3somes (yep, free sex for you!) like I’ve done with my girlfriend Immy. She and I wrote that part of the training together (she contributed a tonne of content, so you can hear what a 3some is like from a woman’s point of view), and it’s aimed at WOMEN – as in, we talk directly to your girl, we literally tell her every single step she needs to take, so she can do it all herself, without you having to do a damn thing.

So all YOU need to do is hand her the guide and say “Go bring me free 3somes!”

Get serious about your sex life – grab your copy here (video course + 2 ebooks):

Grab it now!


Yo, Andy here. I’m an Aussie guy who went from a depressed, suicidal loser to a guy who gets laid regularly, has 3somes & BDSM sex, crushes weights at the gym & loves his life. I killed my inner loser. It's my mission to get you to kill your inner loser too.