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Back in 2018 I’d had plenty of lays, but none with actually hot girls. Sure, I’d banged plenty of cute girls and a few very cute girls – but no girls that actually make you go, ‘God damn, son – she’s impressive.’
And then I met this girl. She was a huge deal for me – she was the first legitimately really really really hot girl I’d had sex with. It did wonders for my confidence and made me feel like I “deserved” to start chasing the hotter girls. Like I’d broken through some imaginary barrier and was now “a man who hits on hot chicks” – almost like she gave me permission to do it. I’m really glad I met her.
This story was originally posted on the Good Looking Loser Forums back in October 2018. As always, any parts in blue are direct quotes from the old post I initially wrote.
Met this super hot girl on Tinder:
(I know the pic is shit, will take better one next time I see her. She was impatient and only wanted to pose for half a second and then kept bugging me to put the phone down and fuck her more.)
This is a great one because I really didn’t want to meet her. I was super tired, in a bad mood, just wanted to cancel the date and go to bed instead. I had to talk myself into it. I posted this to a groupchat with some mates, just before the date:
Soon as I met her I thought “Holy shit she’s way hotter than any of my previous dates, ever”. She’s WAY hotter than her pics, they don’t do her justice. She’s TINY, only weighs 45kg (100lbs). I told her, “Damn, you’re way hotter than your pics. You look fat in some of your pics, I thought you were gonna be a little fatty.” She’s got heaps of tatts, has these deep blue eyes that make you go “holy shit” when she looks at you. She’s way hotter than her pics, and she knows it too – she acts like a hot girl. Very slim, you can see outlines of her abs.
Took her to a bar, she had a drink (I didn’t drink), took her by the hand and walked her back to mine.
She was very fun to fuck – one of my best lays. She moaned like crazy the whole time, her eyes would roll back in her head every time I went nuts on her. She squirted all over my bed like 20 times, my sheets were soaked. She kept smiling at EVERYTHING, it was very cute – when I handcuffed her she had a huge smile like a kid at Disneyworld. She smiled when I played with ice on her body, she was smiling at me the entire time in the bar while we were talking, she smiled & giggled every time I’d spank her, etc. She hasn’t had a lot of experience with BDSM so some of it was very new to her.
Because she’s so small, I had a lot of fun picking her up and bouncing her up and down on my cock. I actually had to be a bit gentle when choking her – I felt like I very easily could have accidentally crushed her neck because she’s so petite. Sex was so much fun with her, she’s very fucking wild.
She’s bi so I’ll get her to play with one of my other girls at some point.
Let me make this damn clear: I was on the verge of not meeting her, because I wasn’t really in the mood and “couldn’t be bothered”. What turned out to be one of the hottest girls I’d banged at the time, very nearly didn’t happen…
And true to my word, I never complained about being too tired for a date ever again. Any time I felt like I “couldn’t be bothered” meeting a girl, I’d think back to this Canadian Superhottie, and the fact I very nearly didn’t meet her because I was “too tired”. That was all the motivation I needed to go to every subsequent date from then on.
I’ve always advocated keeping an open mind and forcing yourself to go to a date if you’re on the fence about it. Whether that’s because you think the girl might only be cute at best, or maybe you’re in a bad mood, or you’re super tired – or maybe you’re just nervous. Whatever the excuse, you need to just shut your mouth, go to the date, and see what happens. 9 times out of 10, you’ll have an awesome time – and sometimes you’ll end up meeting a girl who becomes a long-term fuckbuddy or even a girlfriend.
Every time you don’t go to a date, you’re depriving the girl of meeting you. You two might end up being a couple, and you would have deprived her of that chance had you pussied out. You’re actually being an asshole to girls if you don’t meet them; they deserve to meet an awesome guy like you.
Go on as many dates as you can. You’re under no obligation to have sex with her if you don’t want to, but at least just go to the date and give yourself that chance – you might be pleasantly surprised.
Lemme know how keeping an open mind has worked out for you – drop a comment below.
The ‘I can’t be bothered’ feeling is one of the biggest things holding my date volume back
It extends to just organising dates on tinder, like 2 days ahead of time
Need like a cattle prod or something to jab myself with whenever I get that and push through
The “I can’t be bothered” could be a self-sabotage thing. Especially if you have imposter syndrome (even subconsciously); eg if you’re not 100% convinced you’ll ever be a player.
The answer is to just say “No fuck this, I deserve to get laid a lot” and force yourself to go on the date.