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Welcome back! In the previous episode we covered the Wrist + Head Tie pattern. Now we’ll do a cool Dragonfly Armbinder pattern.

If you’ve never tried any BDSM or rope play before, that’s fine. As I said in the previous episode, just tell your girl you want to give shibari a try. Show her the videos below, and if she’s into it, you two can play around with it and explore it together.

Before we start, you’ll need:

  • A long bondage rope (35ft/10m or longer). Buy this one – I own it, it’s nice and soft so it won’t hurt your girl’s skin. That rope also comes in purple and black.
  • A female human being (or you can do some shibari on your mates if buy ’em a beer or something).
  • Grab a cheap blindfold while you’re there too; I’ve talked about how to make the most out of blindfolds here.

Follow along with this tutorial (aren’t these two fucking adorable?)

As you’re doing these tutorials, it’s a good idea to talk to your girl (like the guy in the vid does). Ask her how it feels, make sure it’s not too tight, etc. The whole point of these is for you both to have fun while you’re doing it. I also like to play with her tits, make out with her a bit, rub her clit gently every now and then, and get her really horny.

Tying your girl up should be something that turns you both on like crazy, so as soon as you finish tying that last knot, the two of you are desperate to bang like rabbits. Think of shibari as the perfect foreplay.

This time we did it with another girl, which made things a lot easier… Well, a lot easier for me. I got to just sit there and watch my girlfriend do all the work, while I “supervised”. Here’s how ours turned out:

They both pointed out (several times) that I was being lazy and not really doing anything. Excuse me? I was checking my phone and occasionally giving advice. Young people these days have no appreciation for their elders.

It’s all good though – I got the punish them both during sex. Full story here:

If you try this pattern yourself: You may want to pull the ropes a little tighter (but check with your girl to make sure it isn’t uncomfortable). Ours was very loose, and ended up coming off fairly easily during sex.

If you try this yourself, leave a comment and tell us about it. If you have any questions – ask away.