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Welcome back, shibari afficionados! In the previous episode we covered the rope dress & chest star patterns. This time we’ll go over a very simple wrist tie behind the head, with a mouth gag added in.

If you’ve never tried any BDSM or rope play before, that doesn’t matter. As I said in the previous episode, just tell your girl you want to give shibari a try. Show her the YouTube videos below, and if she’s into it, you two can have some fun figuring it out together.

Before we start, you’ll need:

  • A long bondage rope (35ft/10m or longer). Buy this one – I own it, it’s nice and soft so it won’t hurt your girl’s skin. That rope also comes in purple and black.
  • A female human being (or you can do some shibari on your mates if buy ’em a beer or something).
  • Grab a cheap blindfold while you’re there too; I’ve talked about how to make the most out of blindfolds here.

Part 1: Wrist Tie

Follow along with this tutorial:

Ours ended up looking like this:

Part 2: Behind the Head

The next step is to tie her hands behind her head, and use some of the rope to gag her:

Our result:

This one’s hot as hell, because she’ll be completely tied up and helpless, unable to move her hands or turn her head at all. She’s be completely at your mercy – so have fun teasing her and doing whatever you like to her body.

If you try this yourself, leave a comment and tell us about it. If you have any questions – ask away.

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