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Another trip down memory lane; this time learning another lesson about girls ghosting for seemingly-arbitrary reasons.

This story was originally posted on the Good Looking Loser Forums back in Sep 2018. As always, any parts in blue are direct quotes from the old post I initially wrote.


Banged a really cute 18yo girl with huge tits:

No nude photo because she specifically asked me not to take any. Fair enough.

Been too long since my last lay report; it’s clear I’ve become complacent because my sex life is taken care of (currently have 3 fuckbuddies; two of whom I care a tonne about). It’s summer here in Australia, so I’ll put more effort in. Expect more lay reports.

Met this girl in public, took her straight back to mine. Sex was insane – she’s VERY fucking passionate and not super experienced. She’s very cheeky and a bit of a smart-ass, in a very cute way.

She has the HUGEST tits I’ve ever seen in my life. She said they’re E cups but they’ve gotta be bigger than that – like F cups or some shit. She wasn’t chubby (more like curvy), so they look unnaturally big on her, like she’s gonna fall over from the weight of them. She had super long blonde hair too, it goes all the way down to her butt.

Tied her up and made her squirt all over my bed, was good fun. She was tight (could only fit 1 finger at first), and everything was very new and novel to her, which is always a lot of fun. Will definitely see her again.

At this point 3 of my 4 fuckbuddies are 18 (the other is 23). I’ve heard so many people on here say shit like “I’m getting old, it’s creeeeeeepy for me to be hitting on young girls”. Or “I’m 25 and a virgin; it’s too late for me now, that ship has sailed”. I’m 31, so if you think it’s too late for you at 20-something, all I can say is…

18 year old girls love me MORE now that I’m 30+ than they EVER did in my 20’s.

It’s NEVER too late to turn your life around and start getting laid. Don’t make any excuses.


So, pretty great sex – she even wrote in capital letters in her original text that she was DYING TO EXPLORE kinky sex. We cuddled afterwards, hungout for a while and she kept saying how excited she was to see me again. Only – we didn’t end up seeing one another again; she kept dodging when I was trying to set up the next hangout. She eventually stopped replying completely.

Why? Well, read on. A year-and-a-half later I matched with her again on Tinder, in Feb 2020:


Matched with this girl I matched with a year and a half ago, lol:

It’s pretty funny; I live in a city with a population of 5 million. You wouldn’t expect to re-match with many girls, but it happens quite a bit.


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Running into girls you’ve banged in the past like this will happen the more girls you sleep with – you’ll run into them years down the track, or they’ll even come back and fuck you again – eg like I did here.

On the subject of her ghosting me, I want you to pay particular attention to what she said the second time we matched on Tinder:

“Nothing you did at all. It was just that I wasn’t ready for it that’s all.”

I’ve talked about this at length in If a Girl Ghosts You – some girls just aren’t going to be ready for intimacy, or sex, or a relationship, or being in bed with a guy, or affection. It isn’t anything you did wrong, so don’t beat yourself up over it. There’s no point stressing about, “What if I had done this better, or that better, or said something different, or worked harder to keep her?” You can only control a limited number of the variables; a lot of whether or not a girl sees you again has to do with her and her frame of mind/mental state.

You can’t control other people. All you can do is control yourself and your actions – so go out there and hit on more girls.

I didn’t end up meeting this girl a second time, even after matching again. After a week of not agreeing to any of the meetups I pitched, she finally admitted again, “I’m sorry, I really don’t think I’m ready for this again. Sorry to have wasted your time.” I appreciated her honesty.


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Yo, Andy here. I’m an Aussie guy who went from a depressed, suicidal loser to a guy who gets laid regularly, has 3somes & BDSM sex, crushes weights at the gym & loves his life. I killed my inner loser. It's my mission to get you to kill your inner loser too.