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Welcome back! In the previous episode we covered the Dragonfly Armbinder pattern. Now we’ll do a Rope Wrist Tie with Leash pattern.

If you’ve never tried any BDSM or rope play before, that’s fine. As I said in the previous episode, just tell your girl you want to give shibari a try. Show her the videos below, and if she’s into it, you two can play around with it and explore it together.

Before we start, you’ll need:

  • A long bondage rope (35ft/10m or longer). Buy this one – I own it, it’s nice and soft so it won’t hurt your girl’s skin. That rope also comes in purple and black.
  • A female human being (or you can do some shibari on your mates if buy ’em a beer or something).
  • Grab a cheap blindfold while you’re there too; I’ve talked about how to make the most out of blindfolds here.

Here’s the tutorial my girl and I used; follow along yourself with your girl:

Follow through all the way to the end – especially the bit where he shows how to make a leash/lead out of the excess rope.

Ours ended up like this:

Pretty similar to the one we did in a previous episode, but this time you’re left with a lot of rope you can hold onto and use as a leash. This one is also a lot more secure – no way she’s wriggling out of this one.

As I’ve said before, you’ll have the most fun if you use rope bondage as foreplay – tease your girl while you’re doing it, play with her tits a little, rub her pussy, whisper dirty stuff in her ear and have a lot of fun getting her horny and desperate. By the time you finish binding her wrists, she’ll be dripping wet and ready for you to pull her lead and drag her into the bedroom.

If you try this yourself, leave a comment and tell us about it. If you have any questions – ask away.


Yo, Andy here. I’m an Aussie guy who went from a depressed, suicidal loser to a guy who gets laid regularly, has 3somes & BDSM sex, crushes weights at the gym & loves his life. I killed my inner loser. It's my mission to get you to kill your inner loser too.