New here? Start with my in-depth guides:

Human Beings Bloom in the Soil of Acceptance

You are where you are - and that's ok.

You’re Allowed to Be a Beginner.

We've all gotta start somewhere.

One Tiny Win Today Is Enough

The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. So, start. Now.

Getting Laid Isn’t that Complicated (And I’m Just a Dating Coach Who’s Nice to You)

Dating often feels complicated... but it really isn't.

The World is Cynical – So I Became a Hope Merchant.

I believe in you. And my goal is: to get you to believe in *yourself*.

Hiding Makes You Fragile — Radical Vulnerability Sets You Free

The truth has nothing to hide.

Fun fact: I used to overthink texts more than you do.

Texting, and dating in general, will get easier with practice. I promise.

My first approach in my 20s? I almost died.

It's ok if your first few approaches suck too.

Years ago I couldn’t even look women in the eye…

If I can change, you sure as hell can too.

If she ghosts you, it’s because she’s scared of how handsome you are.

Ghosting is almost always a reflection of THEM, not you.

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About Me

Hey, I’m Andy. I went from depressed and suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy.

I overcame depression, lost 77lbs, learned to approach women, explored a bunch of amazing 3somes & other experiences, taught myself BDSM, was in a 7-year amazing relationship with my past-partner Immy, and have met so many beautiful women since. I learned to love myself & embrace each day with gratitude and positivity.

I’ve built a fulfilling business coaching other men & women to do what I (and hundreds of other clients) have done. More than anything, I feel peaceful, happy and full of love.

If we can do this stuff, you sure as hell can too.