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The Only Approval You Need Is YOUR OWN.

Your opinion of yourself is the only one that really matters.

Sorry I Pressured You About My Coaching…

Some thoughts on how much I used to pressure you guys in the past.

Hey, you.

A message for you.

Leave Your Sexual Partners Better than You Found Them

It's allowed to be a win-win for you - and her.

The “Chad” Trap: How Overcompensating Masculinity Sabotaged My Dating Success

Why trying to be a "Chad" often hinders your success.

10 Ways to Overcome REGRET & FAILURE

How to live a life of courage, instead of being ruled by fear.

How to Show Interest without Being Needy

And no, it's not about "holding back" or "playing it cool".

Every Expert Was Once a Beginner

We've all gotta start somewhere.

I See You.

You're not alone in this.

Pain is Good for the Soul: 21 Lessons from a Former Student

"Pain is good for the soul."

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About Me

Hey, I’m Andy. I went from depressed and suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy.

I overcame depression, lost 77lbs, learned to approach women, explored a bunch of amazing 3somes & other experiences, taught myself BDSM, was in a 7-year amazing relationship with my past-partner Immy, and have met so many beautiful women since. I learned to love myself & embrace each day with gratitude and positivity.

I’ve built a fulfilling business coaching other men & women to do what I (and hundreds of other clients) have done. More than anything, I feel peaceful, happy and full of love.

If we can do this stuff, you sure as hell can too.