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Pain is Good for the Soul: 21 Lessons from a Former Student

"Pain is good for the soul."

A Friday Afternoon Romp [Sex Story]

Good sex, good company, good conversation.

Good things are coming in the KYIL universe.

I'm excited - for myself and for all of you.

Our Brains are Argument-Machines

Our brains love to lie to us - without even realising they're doing it.

The One Thing You Want Me to Say to You Right Now Is…

Keep moving forward.

What if Everything You Want is ACTUALLY POSSIBLE? (It is)

You're allowed sexual & financial abundance - you just have to do this.

10 Ways to Build an ‘I Don’t Give a F*ck’ Attitude: Letting Go of Others’ Opinions

A step-by-step guide to building more of an outcome-independent mindset.

Why ‘Just Be Yourself’ Is Terrible Advice—And What to Do Instead

Be yourself, but be the BEST you that you can be.

Immy & I are Going Separate Ways (Breakup Survival Guide)

I'm so grateful for all the time we had together.

Instead of AVOIDING REJECTION, Do This Instead

Go for what you want - instead of trying to avoid what you don't want.

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About Me

Hey, I’m Andy. I went from depressed and suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy.

I overcame depression, lost 77lbs, learned to approach women, explored a bunch of amazing 3somes & other experiences, taught myself BDSM, was in a 7-year amazing relationship with my past-partner Immy, and have met so many beautiful women since. I learned to love myself & embrace each day with gratitude and positivity.

I’ve built a fulfilling business coaching other men & women to do what I (and hundreds of other clients) have done. More than anything, I feel peaceful, happy and full of love.

If we can do this stuff, you sure as hell can too.