New here? Start with my epic guides:

The 18yo OnlyFans Queen (3some) [Lay Report]

A fun OnlyFans girl with a heart of gold.

7 Things I Wish I’d Known When I First Tried Getting Laid (Guest Post by PlayingWithFire) [Sex/Dating]

Alex from Playing With Fire drops some amazing wisdom from his successes and stumbles with getting laid.

What Comes After Getting Laid? [General]

Why thinking, "If I could just get laid a lot, my life would be perfect" is incredibly naïve and fundamentally wrong.

BDSM How-to Guides

All the BDSM guides and how-tos I've written.

You’re Ruining Society By Fucking Lots of Women? (Don’t Let Anyone Talk You Out of Your Goals) [Self-Improvement]

Probably the realest video I'll ever do.

How to Unfuck your Finances [Money]

A how-to guide on pulling yourself out of living month-to-month and becoming successful with your finances.

Cold Approaching When You’re Nervous, Should You Be Aloof with Girls, & 3 Ways to Build Massive Confidence (Free Patreon Content)

A bunch of previously-unreleased content I've made over the last year or two.

Be Grateful for Approach Anxiety (Sex/Dating)

Anxiety is your best friend - it's trying to tell you something. Listen to it.

Be So Good that People Call You Privileged

Why I now like it when people tell me, "You're so lucky."

Screening Early vs Screening Later

Why I recommend screening earlier and being upfront with your intentions.


About Me

Yo, Andy here. I’m an Aussie guy who went from a depressed, suicidal loser to a guy who gets laid a tonne (proof here, including vids and pics), has 3somes, 4somes & BDSM sex, crushes weights at the gym, coaches other guys with their own journeys & generally loves his life. (My full transformation story here).

Here’s why I write for this site. I killed my inner loser. It’s my mission to get you to kill your inner loser too.

I’ve done all this shit – and I’m nothing special. You can do everything I’ve done. My coaching clients & my readers have gone on to kick ass too – many of them have lost their virginity, others have gone from zero friends to having solid social circles. Many have overcome mental health issues including depression. Some have made massive progress in the gym & with their weight loss; others have started cold approaching girls during the daytime and getting laid pretty successfully.

Wanna kill your inner loser too? I offer coaching & counselling for those who are absolutely serious about working their ass off and building a killer life. If you’re short on cash, go read my (completely free) 130,000-word Get Laid a Tonne on Tinder series – it’s the complete resource for improving your looks, losing weight, getting matches, messaging girls, going on dates, getting laid, and retaining girls afterwards. No excuses.

I’ll repeat this so it’s damn clear: None of us were anything special. If we’ve all gotten our shit together, you sure as hell can too.