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The Best DATING GAMEPLANS (Should You Do 1st Date Lays?)

Andy & Cam cover five different dating styles, including first date lays, waiting a little longer before having sex, and waiting a *really* long time before having sex.

What is Coaching ACTUALLY Like? (Inside Look)

Ever wondered what the Kill Your Inner Loser experience is ACTUALLY like?

You Are In Control of the Story You Write (Extreme Ownership)

You're the architect of your own life; the master of your fate.

AI is Coming & May Wipe Us All Out. Here’s How to Make Peace with it.

My thoughts on using stoicism and self-improvement to steel yourself against your fear of death - and fear of the death of humanity.

The Bicycle & the Tree (Winners Mindset vs Losing Mindset)

Success is like riding a bicycle.

Cut the NPC Crap: Stop Telling Yourself “I Can’t”

You are more powerful than you think you are.

Reigniting An Old Flame (3some) [Sex Story]

Getting back with a girl we hadn't seen for a few years...

HONESTY: A Girl We’re Dating Gives Her Perspective

How you being honest & upfront affects girls; right from the horse's mouth.

How has Dating Changed as I’ve Gotten Older?

It's become a hell of a lot easier, that's for sure.

What Do You Actually WANT?

If you don't have your own plan, life will just happen to you. Instead, let's make sure YOU are in the driver's seat of your own life.


About Me

Yo, Andy here. I’m an Aussie guy who went from a depressed, suicidal loser to a guy who gets laid a tonne (proof here, including vids and pics), has 3somes, 4somes & BDSM sex, crushes weights at the gym, coaches other guys with their own journeys & generally loves his life. (My full transformation story here).

Here’s why I write for this site. I killed my inner loser. It’s my mission to get you to kill your inner loser too.

I’ve done all this shit – and I’m nothing special. You can do everything I’ve done. My coaching clients & my readers have gone on to kick ass too – many of them have lost their virginity, others have gone from zero friends to having solid social circles. Many have overcome mental health issues including depression. Some have made massive progress in the gym & with their weight loss; others have started cold approaching girls during the daytime and getting laid pretty successfully.

Wanna kill your inner loser too? I offer coaching & counselling for those who are absolutely serious about working their ass off and building a killer life. If you’re short on cash, go read my (completely free) 130,000-word Get Laid a Tonne on Tinder series – it’s the complete resource for improving your looks, losing weight, getting matches, messaging girls, going on dates, getting laid, and retaining girls afterwards. No excuses.

I’ll repeat this so it’s damn clear: None of us were anything special. If we’ve all gotten our shit together, you sure as hell can too.