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How to Take Better Tinder Photos

Andy explains the surprisingly easy process of taking brilliant Tinder photos.

The Time a Girl Tried to Give Me Herpes [Storytime with Andy]

Andy dodges STDs like a celebrity dodging taxes.

Offbeat: Andy Gets a Tattoo

Andy sits in a tattoo waiting room and has a minor breakdown.

Offbeat: How I Lost $28,000

Andy does his best not to cry over spilt milk.

“You’re So Lucky…”

Andy yells at pre-determinists and makes the case for hard bloody work.

My Transformation (About Me)

Andy describes his journey from complete and utter loser to slightly-less-of-a-loser.

Give Yourself Permission to Suck

Andy gives himself an hour to write an article, and explains why it's ok (and perfectly normal) to totally suck at things sometimes.

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About Me

Hey, I’m Andy. I went from depressed and suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy.

I overcame depression, lost 77lbs, learned to approach women, had 100+ 3somes, taught myself BDSM, at the time of writing I’ve been in a relationship with my lovely partner Immy for 6 years, we date and sleep with women together. I learned to love myself & embrace each day with gratitude and positivity.

I’ve built a 5-figures-a-month business coaching other men & women to do what I (and hundreds of other clients) have done. More than anything, I feel peaceful, happy and full of love.

If we can do this stuff, you sure as hell can too.