Monthly archives: April, 2025

The Only Approval You Need Is YOUR OWN.

Your opinion of yourself is the only one that really matters.


Sorry I Pressured You About My Coaching…

Some thoughts on how much I used to pressure you guys in the past.


Hey, you.

A message for you.


Leave Your Sexual Partners Better than You Found Them

It’s allowed to be a win-win for you – and her.


The “Chad” Trap: How Overcompensating Masculinity Sabotaged My Dating Success

Why trying to be a “Chad” often hinders your success.


10 Ways to Overcome REGRET & FAILURE

How to live a life of courage, instead of being ruled by fear.


How to Show Interest without Being Needy

And no, it’s not about “holding back” or “playing it cool”.


Every Expert Was Once a Beginner

We’ve all gotta start somewhere.


I See You.

You’re not alone in this.


Pain is Good for the Soul: 21 Lessons from a Former Student

“Pain is good for the soul.”


A Friday Afternoon Romp [Sex Story]

Good sex, good company, good conversation.


Good things are coming in the KYIL universe.

I’m excited – for myself and for all of you.


Our Brains are Argument-Machines

Our brains love to lie to us – without even realising they’re doing it.


The One Thing You Want Me to Say to You Right Now Is…

Keep moving forward.


What if Everything You Want is ACTUALLY POSSIBLE? (It is)

You’re allowed sexual & financial abundance – you just have to do this.


10 Ways to Build an ‘I Don’t Give a F*ck’ Attitude: Letting Go of Others’ Opinions

A step-by-step guide to building more of an outcome-independent mindset.


Why ‘Just Be Yourself’ Is Terrible Advice—And What to Do Instead

Be yourself, but be the BEST you that you can be.


Immy & I are Going Separate Ways (Breakup Survival Guide)

I’m so grateful for all the time we had together.


Instead of AVOIDING REJECTION, Do This Instead

Go for what you want – instead of trying to avoid what you don’t want.


We Don’t Have to Be Alone. Ask for help. (I’m Still Learning this Lesson Myself)

Sometimes I’m great at giving out advice, but forget to take it myself…