Category: Sex & Dating

How to Take the Lead Without Being Controlling

How do you differentiate between taking the lead/being masculine… vs being too controlling?


BDSM How-to Guides

All the BDSM guides and how-tos I’ve written.


Why Women Hide Their Sexuality (& How to Help Her Open Up)

aka, “The Madonna-Whore Complex”.


How I Use the Bathmate

Andy blows his dick up in the best possible way.


My Current Tinder Profile (including 3somes/BDSM)

"I'm just on here for friends..."

Andy posts his current Tinder profile, the rationale behind it, and a general guide for getting your own Tinder set up.


How Often Should I See a Girl? (Guide for Newbies)

A guide to figuring out how often you want to see your sexual partners.


Miss Giggles 3some [Storytime with Andy]

Andy and his girlfriend have a wild 3some with a girl who just can’t stop giggling. (Cover image above by Brooke Cagle).


Mentoring Girls, Age Gaps & Not Being Controlling

Andy and Imogen answer a listener’s questions about the boundaries between mentoring girls vs being too controlling.


9 Ways to Meet Women EFFICENTLY (if You’re Busy)

Sex life cutting into your time? Here’s how to make it hyper-efficient, like I have.


You’ll Breakthrough, I Promise.

You’re on the right path, you legend.


The Bratty Switch who Loves Kink & Affection [Sex Story]

A raunchy recent tale with a tall 18yo brat/switch…


The Ninja Dom who Became Our Sub [Sex Story]

A fun 3some with a fun fit girl, followed by sushi!


If she ghosts you, it’s because she’s scared of how handsome you are.

Ghosting is almost always a reflection of THEM, not you.


Years ago I couldn’t even look women in the eye…

If I can change, you sure as hell can too.


My first approach in my 20s? I almost died.

It’s ok if your first few approaches suck too.


Fun fact: I used to overthink texts more than you do.

Texting, and dating in general, will get easier with practice. I promise.


I Don’t Teach the ABCs, I Teach You Poetry (Sex/Dating)

Let’s build you into the man you know you can be.


Anger Toward Women Is Almost Always Fear in Disguise

And by admitting your fears, you can start to do something about it.


Tactics Without Heart Become Manipulation

You’re allowed to just be fucking HONEST with women.


If You’re Worried About Other People Seeing you Hit on Girls…

Andy explains why there’s no need to care about other people watching you hit on girls – you’re only an NPC to them.