Proof.

NSFW: This article contains nude pics.
Disclaimer: Everyone here is 18+. I have permission to upload every nude photo. Happy to remove pics/stories – contact me.

There’s heaps of “getting laid advice” on the internet from guys who aren’t actually getting laid all that much. They talk the talk, they tell you exactly what you should and shouldn’t be doing, spit “broscience” at you – but you have no idea if they walk the walk and actually take action on their own advice.

I’m so *artistic* with my camera angles.

That same concept applies to a tonne of sites on the internet – blogs people write, “expert” articles people post, random comments people make on Youtube. They’ll talk as if they’re an expert – and they might well be – but they don’t provide any proof of their expertise. You’re being expected to blindly trust that the person’s advice comes from actual experience and isn’t just them parroting something they read on a random website somewhere.

You often don’t even know what the person giving the advice looks like, or if they have their shit together in any meaningful way. You have no way of knowing if it’s a successful 30yo guy who actually knows what he’s doing… Or a 15yo kid at home banging away on the keyboard who hasn’t followed a single piece of the “expert” advice he dishes out.

Browse the net, and you’ll see dieting/exercise articles from women with no pics of themselves anywhere on the site – you have no way of knowing she’s not a 200kg “curvy” woman who’s never followed a meal plan in her life. Pickup Artists charge $1,000/hr with no actual proof they stick their penis inside a vagina. There’s “get rich quick” advice from people who haven’t shown you a screenshot of their bank account. Business advice from people who haven’t given details of any businesses they’ve actually started and made successful.

The internet is full of unverified experts.

If a guy is talking about getting laid, “proof” means actual photos/videos of him with girls he’s met or screenshots of girls he’s dated/had sex with – not just long unverifiable stories posted on a forum.

And if you yourself have just gotten laid, you’ll massively benefit from showing off your own proof pictures (ask permission/consent first, obviously). Doing so will force you to take getting laid much more seriously, and you’ll be more “all-in” – resulting in you getting laid much more. My lays absolutely skyrocketed when I decided to take myself and my sex life seriously by posting actual proof I was getting laid. As I said here, it’s impossible to get laid a tonne (100+ lays) without going all-in.

Me, after a *hell of a lot* of years working on myself.

Getting laid is something you should be proud of – something you should brag about. Posting proof pics is your chance to show off and say, “Look what I achieved!”

All of this applies to me too – sure, I coach guys about sex, 3somes, relationships, honesty, gym, fat loss, BDSM, Tinder, style, etc… But do I have proof I get laid?

My Rough Numbers

My rough lay count (as of 2020):

150+ online lays (Tinder, Hinge, OkCupid, Craigslist, POF, Bumble, etc). This has been the vast majority of my lays and it’s the method I’m best at – particularly Tinder/Hinge. Yeah it’s a high number, but I’m in my 30’s – I’ve had plenty of time to rack up the sexcapades. Full disclosure: A huge number of my early lays were overweight/not-super-attractive girls (I started out obese myself and they were the only girls I could get). Nothing against any of them; they were pretty much all cool chicks & good people. Since about 2017 onwards, the girls have been actually cute/hot, as you can see in the photos across my site.
Threesomes with 25 different girls (with many more repeat 3somes with the same girls). I’ve written about a few of them here.
A foursome (MFFF) – I wrote about it here.
I’ve been in a relationship for a few years with my girlfriend Imogen – she’s a truly kickass human being. She’s 21 (we met when she was 18), bisexual & seeks out other girls from her own Tinder/Hinge/etc for us to play with together, and I also bang new girls from my own Tinder. We adore the shit out of each other & constantly push one another to absolutely crush our goals. I love her to bits. She even writes for my site sometimes.
9 cold approach lays (walking up to girls during the day on the street/shopping centres/etc and saying “Hey, you’re hot and I had to say hi. I’m Andy” then talking for a bit and asking for a number). Haven’t done as much of this – partly because I get laid so easily on Tinder/online dating.
Tonnes of BDSM sex – toys, whips, roleplays, the whole 50 shades of grey.
A myriad of interesting adventures (details below) – I’ve had 3somes, been with a few strippers, had sex in public many many times, gotten into BDSM, met some crazies, had sex with a tonne of girls within 30 minutes of meeting them, taught a few virgin girls BDSM. Best of all, I’ve met some really awesome girls who’ve changed me for the better.

My Current Tinder Profile (Including BDSM)

Here’s the Tinder Profile I’m currently using, including explanations of what I text girls, how I structure my dates, etc.

Here’s my comprehensive guide to How to Get Laid on Tinder, so you can follow in my footsteps.

Why have I chosen to put all this up on the interwebs, where I can be (and am) judged for it? I pride myself on honesty and seeking the truth; I want my site to break down the bullshit & just be real with people. Could you really trust someone who espoused those values if they weren’t a completely open book?

Every single nude photo on this page & in every other article on my site are photos I’ve taken together with the girls I date/sleep with.

We all went home and had a 3some afterwards. Good times.

I’ll make this abundantly clear: I ask permission before ever sharing any nude pics of anyone; you should ALWAYS do the same. Read my guide on taking nude pics of girls you sleep with. Just throw out a casual, “Yo, mind if I show your body off to my mates?” If you ask, most girls are fine with it.

I also make sure to remove all identifying information from all pics/screenshots; names, faces, locations, phone numbers, I Photoshop out tattoos and birthmarks, as well as anything else that could be used to identify someone. You should always do the same. (In some cases I specifically ask a girl if she’s happy for me to show her face (without blurring it out) here on my site; some girls are totally cool with it and don’t care at all.)

Generally speaking, most girls don’t mind you sharing their photos as long you block out their face completely and any other identifiable information so nobody can tell it’s them. That way it just looks like a nude photo of some random person, rather than her. I always show the photo to them before I upload it to make sure they definitely approve. In short, don’t be a dick.

A Few Fun Stories from Girls I’ve Met

I haven’t written a story about every single time I’ve gotten laid; just the ones that have been the most interesting. Most of these are from about 2017 to the present day.

Important: Bare in mind a couple of the below stories are from several years ago; I’ve changed a hell of a lot since then – especially my mindset on women & people in general. I cringe when I read how immature – and at times downright mean & bitter – I was back then, but my past is an important part of my evolution so it’s important I show it to you. I go into great detail about how my mindset has changed in “You and Me”.

(Some of these links will require you to make a free account on GoodLookingLoser.com in order to view):

Part of a BDSM photoshoot I did in 2019.

I Wasn’t Always a Guy Who Got Laid…

…In fact I started out a lonely, fat, depressed loser. I go into lots of detail about my transformation journey from zero to hero here. You can do the exact same thing – go start with my Tinder guide and do exactly what I’ve done.

Fun fact: Her hands aren’t even tied together; the bow is just to look pretty.

I started out suicidal, obese, depressed, with absolutely no hope for redemption – I really felt like a lost cause. Seriously, read through this and you’ll see how bad my life was when I first started out.

I never in a billion years thought I could do any of the stuff I’ve done. If you read through the first 30 or so pages of the detailed log I kept when I first started trying to get laid, I was scared, timid, depressed and had the worst self-esteem ever. Most weeks I stayed inside my apartment and never left – at least 3 out of every 7 days I’d just drink and watch porn and stay home and cry about how much I hated my life, hated women, hated myself. I had to FORCE myself to leave the house and hit on one girl a day just to convince myself I even deserved to TRY and get laid.

To go from that to a guy who regularly has 3somes without having to try, has a cute, ambitious and intelligent girlfriend who adores him, is getting paid for his getting laid advice and actually has some confidence and self-love still feels surreal sometimes.

Life is fucking awesome – I get to explore BDSM and kinky sex, my girlfriend and I share plenty of girls in 3somes together (she even brings in extra girls from her own Tinder account) and I have a complete abundance of sex – more than I could ever need.

I will repeat this until the day I die: If I can change, anyone can. I was a total zero, and now I’m at a point where I’m really damn happy with my life – I love being alive. I absolutely killed my inner loser, and you sure as hell can too.

Proof of Other Things I Give Advice On

I give Tinder advice; here’s my Tinder guide (with lots of proof).
I give weight loss advice; here’s my proof.
I give workout/strength advice; here’s my proof (and here).
I give 3some advice; here’s my proof.
I give BDSM/kinky sex advice; here’s my proof.
I give advice on overcoming aproach anxiety about talking to girls; proof is here.
I give self-improvement/beating depression/making friends advice; here’s my proof.
I give photography advice; proof I’m a professional photographer is here.
I give advice on erectile dysfunction; something I’ve dealt with and talk about here.
If there’s anything else I talk about that you’d like to see some proof of, comment below or email and I’ll gladly do so. Ask and you shall receive.

The Takeaway

Back when I was a lot chubbier and a lot more pale.

Always ask for proof before you believe some random “expert” on the internet. It’s one thing to pass yourself off as Mr Knowledgeable; it’s another thing to have the actual lived experience.

Ask for proof before swallowing someone’s advice, and in the absence of it, take everything they say with a grain of salt.

You’ve seen my proof. And I started off as the most timid, shy, loser ever – so if I can have success, you sure as hell can too. Start with my in-depth Tinder and Self-Improvement Guide; I cover every single step of improving yourself, meeting women, getting laid, and dating them afterwards.

No matter where you’re starting from (even if you’re literally a virgin), you can turn it around.

I have faith in you.

Yo, Andy here. I’m an Aussie guy who went from a depressed, suicidal loser to a guy who gets laid regularly, has 3somes & BDSM sex, crushes weights at the gym & loves his life. I killed my inner loser. It's my mission to get you to kill your inner loser too.

8 Responses to Proof.

Giovanni Rivas says:

December 21, 2019 at 04:45

Kudos on the proof and all the things you’ve achieved so far. You definitely couldn’t have done it without going All In. This is something I and I think most guys struggle with. Most people are not used to going all in on anything, especially not something as non mainstream as numbers game and cold approach.

I’ve never known anyone who went all in on anything, including myself.

Side question out of curiosity: How tall are you?

- Andy says:
  
  December 22, 2019 at 04:45
  
  If I tell you my height, will you use it as an excuse why success has been “easier” for me than it has for you – despite the fact you’ve already identified your main blockage (“I struggle with going all-in”)?
  
  - Giovanni Rivas says:
    
    December 23, 2019 at 04:45
    
    Ha! Well now that that plan is spoiled, I’ll just go ahead and assume you’re tall.
    
    That assumption being made, I would say that you’re height is definitely an advantage, one by which most girls discriminate heavily.
    
    Now that doesn’t change that going all in is important, but I think that it puts the results a short guy can expect in a different perspective.
    
    - Andy says:
      
      December 23, 2019 at 02:12
      
      Your statement is so cliche I’ve already written about it:
      https://killyourinnerloser.com/my-transformation/
      
      And:
      https://killyourinnerloser.com/youre-so-lucky/
      
      Height’s an advantage. Is being bald an advantage? Fat? Depressed? Suicidal? Abusive relationship? No muscle? Older than most guys who start improving (30 by the time I got serious)? Brainwashed to be a feminist? Zero friends?
      
      Those were all things I’ve had to deal with – part of the hand that life dealt me. Don’t minimise someone down to tall vs short and gloss over everything else about them.
      
      So again – are you going to say “boo hoo, I’m short so it’s haaaaard for me”? Or are you going to dig your heels in and work for what you want? The universe doesn’t reward excuse-making. You either do the work, or be the guy sitting on the sideline obsessing about his shortness, watching other guys achieving the things you want to achieve.
      
      You’d join me, if you really wanted to. But I already wrote about that too.
      https://killyourinnerloser.com/you-wont-listen-to-anything-i-say/
      
      - Andy says:
        
        December 23, 2019 at 02:19
        
        I’ll just screenshot that last article.
        
        I’d really like you to prove me wrong, by the way. Like, really really. Please don’t be another guy who uses height as an excuse not to even try.
        
      - Giovanni Rivas says:
        
        December 23, 2019 at 05:19
        
        The fact that you say it’s a cliche only proves the point of its importance.
        
        The things that you named such as being fat and depressed are things that can be changed. Height can’t be.
        
        Also, most girls won’t know you’re depressed or conditioned to be a feminist unless they get to know you, but they immediately see your height. And I’m definitely not using height as an excuse to not try, just as a perfectly plausible reason as to why I didn’t do well even when I was trying.
        
        Short guys can get laid, I have no doubt about that. Hell, midgets get laid. But when you’re short, your options are significantly limited and you most likely won’t get the hotties.
        
        I’m not disagreeing with you, I think we’re both right. I’m just saying that the reality is different when you’re short, that’s all.
        
        A poor person might make the same argument about wealth, an Asian about being white. They’d all be right. It doesn’t mean they should give up, but since it changes the reality of their expectations, its understandable that they would be discouraged.
        
NewNoise says:

December 20, 2019 at 22:20

You’re one of the few people that actually provides in-depth proof among multiple topics. Mucho appreciated!

- Andy says:
  
  December 21, 2019 at 02:20
  
  Cheers mate. Still doing 1 approach a day?